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Sunday, September 23, 2012

The Loss and Ignorance of Compassion In Schools

All sentient beings possess flesh and blood, feelings and emotions. It is undoubtedly true that we all need to be respected, recognized, encouraged and understood. We then feel more graceful that our smiles can be broad and our lives can be that significant. 

 On the contrary, what will happen if compassion is lost? People are not thinking in others' shoes. People have tendency towards stereotype, they begin to seriously judge others using their own single-minded perception. People are distrusting one another and also people live in agony, in hatred, in disbelief, in disappointment and dilemma. 

 Quite a number of cases regarding insensitivity of compassion keeps happening in schools. It is definitely a saddened fact where many out there can't agree more with my statement.

 Before i became a school teacher, I have always believed that those who teach are real educators, who not only impart the knowledge but understand students' needs. Teachers are not preachers. But, do all educators so passionate and dedicated about teaching? Well, a question mark has been emerged! 

I always have strong belief that leaders in schools should have more compassion, either towards teachers or students. Before implementing any new policy, it must have gotten mutual understanding between different parties and so teachers can wholeheartedly run the deals and students can follow it with pleasure and determination as there is win-win situation for all in one vision.

 Sadly, i have come across a special leader in school who only thinks she is right all the time. She believes hers are the only divine words while others are improper and ignorant. Why do I say so? She claims that a teacher who is not putting on tie or name tag is "not professional'. 

Well, in such humid and temperate weather, having to deal with so many children in puberty, that tie is more "professional" than the pedagogical and psychological skills that teachers should possess. Perhaps, people working in air-conditioned office have different thinking towards "tie" and "professionalism". 

 She also claims that teachers should never sit in the classroom. Indeed, I put my hands up and agree with this. But, let's have some compassion and come to think of that, the teachers who sit might be sick; the teachers who sit might be marking students' paragraph-writing; the teachers who sit for a while might have been standing for hours having taught other classes.

 She simply claims that teachers never perform well in school even though the teachers have always finished all kinds of school work in time. The sweeping statements that uttered by her can actually kill teachers' passion towards their profession. The distrust in teachers' ability can demolish teachers' willingness to go beyond sacrifice.

 A new transferred teacher is malevolently asked to handle students at the school hostel from 3p.m to 10p.m (Not teaching, but to ensure students do their work). Working extra hours is one, what makes things worse is this teacher's husband is facing serious health problem, she now has to sacrifice personal's private time in school, not able to attend to his ailing husband waiting pitifully at home. 

 There are lots and lots more to be listed out... 

 The loss and ignorance of compassion can really be a pain in the neck. The suffering is made. I pledge, please have more compassion especially those respected educators. Remember, your words and inconsideration are sharper than the swords, more poisonous than the most poisonous poison found on earth. Compassion is vital to make a difference in children's lives. Don't misuse it!

Thursday, August 30, 2012

THE NEW ROAD

As i walk in the grey pavement,
it suddenly turns blue,
The person who leads in my school,
Makes teachers and students,
infected by Flu.

Believing i have patience,
Believing i have tolerance,
Believing i have compassion,
Still, Sadly, I find it hard to let go, her unreasonable predicament!

Now, I am finally freed.
No longer like heaven and hell, locked in a cage.
When a hope is being stolen,
vanished into ashes,
gone by the wind.

A new road has to be founded,
to leave the sadness and welcome
a brightly lighted future that might spark
and shine and lead my life to paradise.

 HMM... THE NEW ROAD! Is now certain. It is time to go... Bless me!!!

Friday, June 29, 2012

LOVING KINDNESS

Loving Kindness For the paths We have come across , For the perspiration We have desperately sweated, For the disasters We have experienced, For the fallacy of humans We have witnessed , But for the kindness We have delightfully received, Yours are the earth entwined by sacred hearts , Flow to our nerves and sinews. I know ,I do know , The acme of abstruse circumstances, The peak of devastating, malevolent incidents, that wounded us deeply ,madly . Even so, Fear not my fellow men , We worship you all for leading an aegis life , with abundance of lime light , lighted your life and the poor and the less fortunate , We help ,we serve and we care , Compassion is our mission The abrogation of facts, never burn us out , To all we love , To all we serve , In the name of god , Build your hope and be feted by smile , Loving kindness is that counts.

Thursday, April 12, 2012

Colourful sky

Many out there,wandering like clouds,
to nowhere they head to.
The journey...stumbling and challenging,
thunder storming and disastrous happening,
so cool and amazing.
But, as the wanderer become navigators,
they seem to be more remarkable as experiences do count.
And so,they lead life like a colourful sky.

Absurdity of Malaysian Policy

The myth of the myths,
The wonder of wonders,
Turning our people,
Body contorted,
And eyeballs devastated.

Instability of races,
Injustice of economies,
Unfair treatment of education,
Unlogical doings of policy,
Killing the generations,
young and old,
softly with intended melody.

Super star award,
Hollywood,Bollywood or any,
Wooden award in Malaysia,
Should be presented to,
these sarcastic actors or actresses.

A garland of roses,
Should also be provided,
As a mean of appreciation,
for their WONDERFUL contribution
That makes Malaysia a promising
land of foreseen anticipation.

Now,let's make a wall of people,
Fighting again those impostors,
Returning us,our fertile land,
Back to people,to all Malaysians,
Let's stop the absurding of Malaysian Policy.

Love Poem(Just one more time)

Back at two,
Sitting on the sofa,
Accompanied by loneliness,
Still,staring at the tv,
Brain couldn't stop wondering...

The words you uttered,
Kept me in a cage,
Struggling to gain independance,
Sadly,I lost my freedom,
By pouring out loud my explanation...
Beep...beep...beep...
Speechless!!!

If only time could come back,
Just one more time,
The truth would be revealed,
and confessed...
Be it sucessful or failure.

I do not care,
Please believe that,
Yours are the earth which empowered
the souls of human beings,
that got my nerve and...my love.

The breathing...stolen by you silently,
as you are definitely amazing,
and your lips are absolutely welcoming,
making me compulsory to hold you in my arms
for far longer than forever,
If,Just ONE more time.

Saturday, December 31, 2011

HELLO 2012, GOODBYE 2011.

HELLO 2012,
GOODBYE 2011.

Yesterdays were merely a dream,
Leaving behind wondrous memories,

As if roaming in a santuary,
And learned profoundably knowledge,

The sacredness of relationship and friendship,
Gone through gracefully by wisdom and Love,

Perspiration, Exhaustion, Disappointment,
Happiness, Sweetness, Excitement,

Having tasted colorful emotions,
In 2011 with full anticipation,

I, Alex Yew,
Looking forward to 2012
with abundant expectations.

Hello 2012,
Goobye 2011:-)

Saturday, December 17, 2011

A CUP OF TEA

Different tastes and
it serves for different purposes
and people who consume it
not merely by mouth but heart.

A cup of tea ,
comprises of memories ,
childhood, teenage and adulthood ,
recaping pictoreque scenery.

Bringing us to roam freely in the past,
As if days could have come back,
And so the past is movie... yet amazing.

Those little things worthfully kept,
thinking back from a cup of tea .

Monday, November 21, 2011

SPM INVIGILATION

Alone...
Standing and wandering
nowhere.
Like an aimless, headless flies
So suffering and
totally torturing.

Who would willingly
Sacrifice for such
Damn lower paid stuff?
Someone? No one? I doubt...

We...
Young teachers...
By force
And so unhappy and
Unsatisfied...

However, we still hold the Duty,
and shoulder our Responsibility,
as Humanity
Prevails over Intensity.

Monday, October 24, 2011

Stop being ruthless and inhumane

I refer to “Sin Chew Daily, 18 Oct” a news about a shocking accident took place in Guang Zhou, China. A two-year-old girl was twice being knocked down and crashed over by car wheels but the drivers pretended as if nothing had happened, accelerated and freed.

According to the news, a CCTV recorded the scene, and what made people even more frustrated is there were eighteen ‘blinded’ pedestrians who passed by the poor girl but none was willing to lend a helping hand although they could vividly see a pool of blood and the girl was in excruciating pain lying helplessly and fragilely on the road for more than 2 minutes. She was then pulled aside by an old nanny who kept on shouting loudly for help.

Now, the grieving parents are moaning in pain, struggling and wailing as their beloved little queen has just passed away at a hospital yesterday. Why should she suffer like this? Why should she be treated this way? Why should she be the victim of this cruel society?


I have no idea why would this happen to the people and country of so called five thousand years of precious civilization. Values like politeness, respect, humbleness, compassion and etc are supposed to be inculcated into their souls as advocated by Lao Tze or Confucius. But, the fact is not. Knowing how to care and love, willing to help and serve, are also the values stressed and emphasized in traditional Chinese families. But, again, sadly, the fact is not.

I believe that an inhumane society is no better than a bunch of zombies wandering like nobody. They are cold blooded and malevolent. As such, people living there will have no hopes for survive if they face difficulties as no one is willing to lend a helping hand. And so, everyone will be extremely pragmatic and individualistic. They will have no friends, no souls, and no life. Everything is fake and unrealistic.

We as humans, we shall never accept such ruthless act. So, what should we do to ensure that our country and people are living harmoniously, peacefully and compassionately? In my opinion, all parties should hand in hand, work together to make it works. Undoubtedly, schools and parents play the biggest roles in shaping a child’s mind and perception. Worthwhile values should be instilled to children since young.

In short, let’s not be ruthless and inhumane. Let’s be helpful and tender. Well, let’s pray for the pitiful girl, may she rest in peace and hopefully our mighty god will lead her to heaven.