Feeling damn down for a moment when i knew that someone's child who was only 16 months old passed away this morning! This was indeed and absolutely a hearbreaking incident, a tremendous horrible fact that has to be faced by force by the poor child's family memebers especailly the parents!
16 months old child is like an Angel,
Pampered by Father and Mother,
Spoilt by Grandparents,
Loved and Doted by Everyone.
This angel must be having milk in her mother's arm,
Crawling and walking unbalancedly, stumble and fall,
Crying and Baby Talking all the while naively trying
to get attention and sympathy.
Sadly...
This child had no more chance to do it!
Sadly...
The parents had no more chance to see and share it!
The laughter and the footprints,
The sounds and the saliva,
The urine and the poo,
The baby smell and the smiles,
The naughty yet creative actions,
All the child had left are memories,
Visualised piece by piece in mind, unbearably!
Sound could still be heard in ears, unforgetably!
All the expectations and dreams for the child have gone!
Hoping the child to be healthy, a Uni grad who was resourceful,
Grown up and got married, contributed to the nation and the citizens, but...
Vanished and disappeared like a ship struck by a rogue wave in pacific ocean,
Destroyed and Devastated like an atomic bomb fell on Hirsohima and Nagasaki in Japan,
So Cruel! So Helpless! So Suffering! But...TRUE!
If i were the parents, i would ask god to replace my life with my child,
granting him a healthy and long life! I supposed the parents did the same
thing as i strongly believe that parents could do everything, or just anything
for their children! The power of love from parents would only be felt and understood
once you have your own flesh and blood!
Since the world is not fair, therefore we have to use what we have and do what we can to brighten up this world by burning other people lives...
So we have to provide fairness and justice to the world where many poor people need it! We give and we share, a simple act yet it gives others warmth and hope!
Friends and students, Let's burn our lives with more passion and love for the people, society, country and the world!
Amitofo to the child, may you rest and peace and may
Buddha leads you to somewhere you belong! God Bless!
12 comments:
那种想要奋不顾身为了换来另一个生命的感觉是怎么样的？
从前我以为自己很孝顺，以为自己很爱的我的家人。但有一天，我想着，如果我的任何一个家人出事了，但只要我能向上帝请求用自己的命就能换回我家人的命，我会吗？
我傻眼。因为我想了很久很久都没有办法回答这个问题。
老师，到底是什么样的心情，会有这样的勇气用自己的命换命？爱是什么样的感觉啊？...
不过，如果要我家人用自己的命来换我的命我当然不想要，就算我舍不得我也不可以这么自私。在任何地方我自私，但对于【命】我不可以。我知道我不能阻止他们对我的爱，可是如果爱我的话，相信我，上帝如果让我离开一定有它的目的的，或许我继续的活着会更加痛苦呢？这是一个16岁的“小”孩的想法。哈～
那个宝宝现在应该在天堂有自己的任务吧！他会幸福的!
我曾经听过一个故事～有个渔夫在打鱼时遇见一个海中的王子，他们关系越来越好，至到他们认识一年的那一天。王子为了庆祝他们俩认识一年，决定带渔夫去海底参观。当他们到一户家庭前，看到那户家庭正在庆祝，渔夫觉得很奇怪，便问王子他们家有什么喜事，王子笑着对他说，相反地他们正在办丧事。渔夫说，他们的至亲离开了，还能那么快乐，实在是太没人性了，换做他们在陆地，一定被人骂！王子听了，毫不犹豫地把渔夫送回陆地，并告诉他说：“我们不再是朋友。上天既然把亲人送到我们身边，就只是要他们了解何谓人世间的情感。当有一天上天要接回他们时，代表他们不用再为情感这东西烦恼了，而且还有更大的使命等待他在天上完成，所以我们应该感到高兴，而不是舍不得。你们陆地的人却这样依依不舍，哭哭啼啼的，根本就是违反上天的执意”
我不知道这故事的真正含义，但对我而言，该走的就让他走『虽然我知道如果他是我的亲人的话我不会那么那么看得开』但是既然上天要接她走，或许他会过得更好，我们只能祝福他。不管是大小老少，命要他走到这里，他只能服从，甚至谁也改变不了的，更没有公不公平之分。祝福，是我们唯一能做的。Amitofo
Hi Gal,
True love does not require return, True love is not selfish,
True love is not to show off,
True love is Sacrifice,
True love is about giving happiness,
True love is to let go at times,
True love is to accept the differences!
Etc Etc Etc
I will not actually sacrifice my life for parents because i will chant sutra and do as many good deeds as possible so as to provide a better afterlife for parents!
Child or children are different! They still have plenty of chances to see and feel the world! Adults have seen and experienced enough, let the young ones go through the beauty in life:-)
When you become a mother in the future, i am sure you will actually understand what i mentioned above! Haha
Hi heartless,
You are right! But, this story is optimistic as it calms people mind. I believe that this is a western story. They believe that those who pass away will go to paradise! So, they say it is ok to die. Still, no one sees paradise before and they aren't sure about it. The good thing is when people believe in god or christianity, they are more ready to accept death!
Haha... you will come to understand my meaning of unfair when you grow older:-)
ooooo...
==!!!
蛤～～
要等当妈妈才明白啊～～
做莫扯到这样远～～～～
好，
等老师做【阿公】先先...hooooOOOOO^^
no,that is a short story from One Thousand and One Night,so that is a Islam story but I don't think that is something about Islam.It just like a western story.
maybe I will know what the is word unfair mean......
It is indeed a heart breaking story. Just the thought of a young soul being taken away is heart wrenching enough for any parents. I myself can imagine the pain and grief the parents have to endure for a long period of time. I've seen how sadness on faces look like due to grieving and smiles will never be the same again. The crack on a mirror can never go away. Amitofo, may God bless the soul of the departed child.
Different ages,different thinking.
As for me,I cannot really experience the pain that suffered by the family and also people that love that baby...
You are totally right!
The baby is just 16 months only,it is a cruel thing for him/her actually.
It's so unfair for he/she haven't open his/her eyes bigly to see deeply and clearly the society now,it's so unfair that he/she haven't do the things they wish for,it's so unfair that he/she haven't enjoy and feel the warmness and sweetness inside his/her home...
We can't do anything to change the final result,but the only thing we can do for the baby is hope and wish for the best to her/him!
God bless this innocent small life!
Chun Li and Jia Er,
Ya! A sad news indeed. I myself experienced something like that although it was not to that extent. Still, the daunting moments are quite vividly remembered on my mind.
Buddha Bless the child! Amitofo!
Where did this saddened incident happen?
Where? Haha.. In JB!
Why you laugh o?
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